But ask a few people about what being bisexual means to them, and you might get a few different answers. To them, bisexuality excludes nonbinary genders , or even erases transgender people altogether. One popular definition was created by bisexual activist Robyn Ochs:. Bisexuality can include both same and different.

At OprahMag. When I first met my now-husband in April , I made a point of telling him about my history of dating both men and women—and how I came out as bisexual at 16 years old to my friends and family, who offered mixed reactions. My friends were supportive; my family didn't quite understand. But that confusion I first encountered with my parents is a common reaction for anyone who identifies as a bisexual person.

The traffic was bad, even by the warped standards of a Southern California commute. We were on our way to an A. When someone suggested that we try another route, Sylla, A. I met Sylla the previous day at A. Tall and pale, with an easy smile, Sylla offered me books from A.